a social issue which needs more attension than anyother current issue.how to start this topic?i am unable to find proper words.but still i am starting<br />
Assalum.o.Alikum,<br />
how areyou?<br />
me fine.who are you?<br />
oh! really you don't know me?<br />
well i am ahmed.<br />
who is ahmed?sorry i don't know<br />
Don't call me again please.<br />
waiting for few minutes and call again,<br />
why you are disturbing me?<br />
i am not intrested in talking with you.<br />
who are you ?i don't know,i don't lke to talk with strangers,how you got my cell number.???<br />
there is a friend of mine you don't know he has another friend which is ur friend and he gave me your number.<br />
ok but still i am not intrested in having any sort of relation with you.i am not of this type.<br />
its last time i am warning you politely otherwise you don't know me i will misbehave if you called me again.<br />
some text messages to let her know about himself and then another call.time passes in discussion how you got my number,why you want to talk with me,call someone else i am not of this type etc.and there starts a relation having the name of friendship.this friendship grows and two friends ultimately fall in love even without seeing eachother.after love there comes a stage when they feel the need to see each other.in more modern terms date is fixed.some resturant is decided and there comes the first date.after that start saying each other you are gorgeous i have not seen anyone beautiful as you.few days later they again feel the need of live conversation and also thinking that public place is not suitable there is no privacy there so we should meet at a separate place where we can share our views more easily.this is the climax of every wrong call recieved by our young fellows.after few days one partner feels the the need of change the so called love has finished and he passes the number to other friend and in return gets a new one and again same story.<br />
If we look in our surroundings young fellows in schools,colleges universities offices everywhere the only hot topic is this.How is your new girlfried?How she looks like?How is your new boyfriend?He is very caring,very loving,very decent and different from other guys i really love him.Hi friends how are you?How is going on life?well i have ended up with my girlfriend last night she has become a source of irritation for me, will anyone give me a new number?<br />
What is all this we people are getting far away from our goal.Misusing all the facilities given to us by our parents,cheating them.Both girls and boys are equally responsible in having these so called love or friendship affairs.How it is possible that there is a friendship between two persons both opposite in sex,attitude,nature and thinking.Allah has clearly described the possible relation of man and woman and that is only to have marriage.<br />
There are many reasons that are involved in an increase of this problem<br />
More advance media where every talkshow,drama and movie almost having its central idea of love or friendship.Our youngfellows watching all this take a serious effect on their minds,fascinating all they had seen then practical implement.<br />
Decrease in call rates by different cellular companies late in the night.Every parents sleep maximum upto 11<img src="http://www.cssforum.com.pk/general/discussion/images/smilies/13.gif" border="0" alt="" title="Astonished" class="inlineimg" />0 in the night.No phone calls from them after 11 for their children living outside in hostels.Every business work is closed after sunset,stock markets ae closed then what is the practical use of these decreased rates.It is only to attract people involved in so called affairs.On the other hand parents are happy getting up early in the morning discussing that our daughter studies the whole night asking to her mother u should not disturb her when she will complete her sleep she will wake up herself and keep an eye on her food she is getting slim.Our son is very hard working remains busy in studying the whole night he will surely get scholarship.At the end all hopes of parents are destroyed.<br />
A so called modren culture growing in our institutes,we people smiling to the girls in veil,sayig "Pendo production".Everyone busy in gossip then exchange of cell numbers for study purposes.<br />
Our almost nill attension to religious values.No fear of ALLAH,no fear of parents jsut thnking ourselves that we are right evey other is wrong.<br />
We are simply going to destruction.We are doing nothing simply destroying ourselves both in this life and the life after death.A recent study has shown that 90 percent of people visiting psychatrists are of the age of 15 to 25.Answer is really very simple anyone who is involved in these affairs simply destroys his or her mental peace always thinking what will happen if mother came to know if dad will see with her or with him.By giving less time to studies at the time of exams we are under stress then seeking psychatric help.<br />
To get rid of all this,a public awareness programme should be launched immediately.Parents should spare sometime to look after their children,keeping an eye on their activities.Misuse of cell phones.internet and ay other resource should be stopped.There should be a complete distinction between males and females.This so called amalgemation of two opposite sexes should be stopped immediately.There must be social limits between male and female.Our religion and Allah has given us the choice to like some one but no permission to like each other in this way.If we really love some one we have the liberty to marry.Getting ourselves involved in such affairs is not the right thing to do.<br />
Lets think of ourselves and analyse our deeds half of the problems would be eradicated itself.<br />
Reagards.<br />
Awais Ali kazmi.
Assalum.o.Alikum,<br />
how areyou?<br />
me fine.who are you?<br />
oh! really you don't know me?<br />
well i am ahmed.<br />
who is ahmed?sorry i don't know<br />
Don't call me again please.<br />
waiting for few minutes and call again,<br />
why you are disturbing me?<br />
i am not intrested in talking with you.<br />
who are you ?i don't know,i don't lke to talk with strangers,how you got my cell number.???<br />
there is a friend of mine you don't know he has another friend which is ur friend and he gave me your number.<br />
ok but still i am not intrested in having any sort of relation with you.i am not of this type.<br />
its last time i am warning you politely otherwise you don't know me i will misbehave if you called me again.<br />
some text messages to let her know about himself and then another call.time passes in discussion how you got my number,why you want to talk with me,call someone else i am not of this type etc.and there starts a relation having the name of friendship.this friendship grows and two friends ultimately fall in love even without seeing eachother.after love there comes a stage when they feel the need to see each other.in more modern terms date is fixed.some resturant is decided and there comes the first date.after that start saying each other you are gorgeous i have not seen anyone beautiful as you.few days later they again feel the need of live conversation and also thinking that public place is not suitable there is no privacy there so we should meet at a separate place where we can share our views more easily.this is the climax of every wrong call recieved by our young fellows.after few days one partner feels the the need of change the so called love has finished and he passes the number to other friend and in return gets a new one and again same story.<br />
If we look in our surroundings young fellows in schools,colleges universities offices everywhere the only hot topic is this.How is your new girlfried?How she looks like?How is your new boyfriend?He is very caring,very loving,very decent and different from other guys i really love him.Hi friends how are you?How is going on life?well i have ended up with my girlfriend last night she has become a source of irritation for me, will anyone give me a new number?<br />
What is all this we people are getting far away from our goal.Misusing all the facilities given to us by our parents,cheating them.Both girls and boys are equally responsible in having these so called love or friendship affairs.How it is possible that there is a friendship between two persons both opposite in sex,attitude,nature and thinking.Allah has clearly described the possible relation of man and woman and that is only to have marriage.<br />
There are many reasons that are involved in an increase of this problem<br />
More advance media where every talkshow,drama and movie almost having its central idea of love or friendship.Our youngfellows watching all this take a serious effect on their minds,fascinating all they had seen then practical implement.<br />
Decrease in call rates by different cellular companies late in the night.Every parents sleep maximum upto 11<img src="http://www.cssforum.com.pk/general/discussion/images/smilies/13.gif" border="0" alt="" title="Astonished" class="inlineimg" />0 in the night.No phone calls from them after 11 for their children living outside in hostels.Every business work is closed after sunset,stock markets ae closed then what is the practical use of these decreased rates.It is only to attract people involved in so called affairs.On the other hand parents are happy getting up early in the morning discussing that our daughter studies the whole night asking to her mother u should not disturb her when she will complete her sleep she will wake up herself and keep an eye on her food she is getting slim.Our son is very hard working remains busy in studying the whole night he will surely get scholarship.At the end all hopes of parents are destroyed.<br />
A so called modren culture growing in our institutes,we people smiling to the girls in veil,sayig "Pendo production".Everyone busy in gossip then exchange of cell numbers for study purposes.<br />
Our almost nill attension to religious values.No fear of ALLAH,no fear of parents jsut thnking ourselves that we are right evey other is wrong.<br />
We are simply going to destruction.We are doing nothing simply destroying ourselves both in this life and the life after death.A recent study has shown that 90 percent of people visiting psychatrists are of the age of 15 to 25.Answer is really very simple anyone who is involved in these affairs simply destroys his or her mental peace always thinking what will happen if mother came to know if dad will see with her or with him.By giving less time to studies at the time of exams we are under stress then seeking psychatric help.<br />
To get rid of all this,a public awareness programme should be launched immediately.Parents should spare sometime to look after their children,keeping an eye on their activities.Misuse of cell phones.internet and ay other resource should be stopped.There should be a complete distinction between males and females.This so called amalgemation of two opposite sexes should be stopped immediately.There must be social limits between male and female.Our religion and Allah has given us the choice to like some one but no permission to like each other in this way.If we really love some one we have the liberty to marry.Getting ourselves involved in such affairs is not the right thing to do.<br />
Lets think of ourselves and analyse our deeds half of the problems would be eradicated itself.<br />
Reagards.<br />
Awais Ali kazmi.