i have a problem with my php ajax chat script

[scottfx2]

hello i have some problems with my php ajax script i'm using PHP/mysql i have a field in my accounts table that will save the time for the last request from a user, i will use that to kick the idle user out of the chat. and i will make a php function that will delete all the rows that its time field more than the time limit, but where should i use this method is it okay to fire it every time a new request sent to my index.php ? i think that will make a huge load on the server,is n't it ? do you have a better solution? thanks